Life as an Editor Married to an Author
Earlier this month, my husband Matt London, experienced something as an author that I've experienced many times as an editor. He launched his middle grade debut novel, The 8th Continent. In my career I've witnessed many book launches and supported my authors through all that goes with the publishing process as their editor. With Matt and The 8th Continent, I finally experienced it as a family member.
Let's rewind about a decade...
My husband and I both got our starts in the publishing world around the same time. In fact, if it weren't for him, I might not even be an editor today. I had taken a semester off of college to do a national theatre tour and after I returned, I spent the majority of my time in his dorm room reading a book a day. One day, Matt said "You're a freakishly fast reader. You really should find out how to be a reader for a publishing house or literary agent." The next day, I applied for an internship at a lit agency, snagged the job, and started my long journey to becoming an editor.
Matt was always writing. Since college I've been his first reader on nearly everything he's written. We dreamed of the day I would be an editor and he would be a published author and we'd be living in a big penthouse on Central Park West... The realities of publishing salaries and the life of a freelance author have made that last big a tad hard to fulfill, but as of this month, we have the first two boxes checked off.
As you can imagine, life in an apartment with one editor and one author can be tricky, so here's how we have survived
No Crossing the Streams: It was always important to us that we each support each other while keeping up boundaries. When Matt's book went on submission, there was never a moment when we considered sending it to me or my imprint. In fact, when he received his offer from Razorbill, I was still working at Penguin, and the editor had no idea we were married until he went in for a meeting. Of course, over the years we've both made contacts from interactions we've had at various parties and book launch parties, but I never sent an email to anyone saying "Hey, my man has a book you should read." That said, at non-publishing events we often get a side-eye when people ask us what we do. "I'm a children's book author." "I'm a children's book editor." Quickly followed by an "Uh-huh..."
Empathy: I have to say having lived with an author on submission, it does make me look at my long list of submissions with more empathy for the writers. They also have family members listening to them freak out over long submission times and why an agent or editor is tweeting about reading (or not reading) submissions. On the other hand, I'm able to say "Hey, editors are human and sometimes just want to spend some time playing video games (yes, we're nerds) with their husband or watch some Scandal. Chill out." We've both humanized the other side for each other.
Knowing When to Step Aside: Once Matt got his book deal, I told him that I was going to stand back and leave the editing up to his editor. These days I typically read a first draft before he sends it just to assure him it's not terrible. I don't read the book again until it's finished. I know how it can be as an editor knowing that an author has a bevy of beta-readers and family members reading each draft and how those voices can occasionally muddy the editorial process, so I just don't insert myself. That said, whenever he starts a new project, I'm always very excited to read his new work.
Perspective: After spending my entire publishing career living with me, Matt has had a leg up in what to expect as a debut author. He's been to many events for my authors and has heard all of the behind-the-scenes information on every book I've edited, so he went into the publishing process understanding the reality of being a debut middle grade author and did always have me to fall back on if he had a question about part of the process.
So after nearly ten years of working toward our goal, Matt's book came out this month and it has been amazing and crazy and I couldn't be more proud of him. I know now firsthand how intense launch week is for an author and their family and want to send hugs to every author and family I've ever worked with.
Here's to many more years of our crazy life in publishing.